Aries, as is well known, is not the Tom-Jones-slick-satin-bathrobe-wearing-lounge-lizard of the world’s lovers. Instead, whether man or woman, Aries is a contradiction of competing energies, which can lead to great passions and enduring relationships, or it can stagnate and leave you home, making candy apples with your mom.
In many ways it is the visceral or physical way that Aries tend to enjoy the world that creates the serious deficits (or excesses) in your production of pimp juice. Arians approach love like they approach most things in their fiery lives, with passion and intensity, but since this strength of conviction and certainty of action is usual realized by doing as opposed to thinking, the more subtle parts of the your life can be underdeveloped.
This intensity is most readily seen in the initial stages of a relationship with an Arian. Since they are always ready to start a new adventure they are often some of the most romantic people on earth, as they jump head first into the fresh newness of an early romance. Watch out for big bouquets of flowers, and fancy bottles of wine served with delicious meals, and then a drive along the water, these are the trappings of an Aries fantasy at work. This can be a real blessing or it can also be the superficial heat of a jet’s after burner; the heat may be intense but it also may be short lived.
***Caution to potential partners of Aries: Don’t let your own potentially playful attitude towards competition blur the fact that your Fiery lover is not one to take a challenge lightly and will constantly accept any gauntlet thrown at his/her feet. In fact the blind competitive nature of the Aries can mean a narcissistic streak that can prevent Aries from knowing when they are hurting people.
Another aspect of the Aries’ approach to relationships is their inherent desire for adventure. So when they catch their prey (you) they sometimes have no idea what to do with you. Like a cat who knows he is supposed to catch a mouse, but since he has never been shown how to eat one, the Aries can be confused by some of the more mundane parts of the day-to-day relationship struggles. This is where the competitive struggle can come in handy. The Aries is likely to sense that some hard work can make this work smoothly, and will dig in and rise to the challenge.
For the Aries out there embrace your fire, and good things will come, deny it and only the negative aspects of your sign will be allowed to rise to the surface. Many women Aries find themselves living in a world that does not allow, or at least does not respect the qualities that define their sign. Joan of Arc was an Aries and look what the men of the church did to her. Love yourself and embrace the things that make you independent and important.
***For those of you stuck with a love-on for an Aries or even just a crush, don’t play games, they will go right over his/her head. If you want something, ask, they’ll appreciate it, and you will get what you want in the end.
Best Relationship Matches
Leo/Sagittarius Both the fire sign share a lot in common.
Libra An excellent match of opposites, however the marriage of too different planets, Mars and Venus, can sometimes be volatile.
Worst Relationship Matches
Pisces Too sentimental for you
Gemini Too much bickering
Virgo Too fussy for you