Aries

Aries, as is well known, is not the Tom-Jones-slick-satin-bathrobe-wearing-lounge-lizard of the world’s lovers. Instead, whether man or woman, Aries is a contradiction of competing energies, which can lead to great passions and enduring relationships, or it can stagnate and leave you home, making candy apples with your mom.

In many ways it is the visceral or physical way that Aries tend to enjoy the world that creates the serious deficits (or excesses) in your production of pimp juice. Arians approach love like they approach most things in their fiery lives, with passion and intensity, but since this strength of conviction and certainty of action is usual realized by doing as opposed to thinking, the more subtle parts of the your life can be underdeveloped.

This intensity is most readily seen in the initial stages of a relationship with an Arian. Since they are always ready to start a new adventure they are often some of the most romantic people on earth, as they jump head first into the fresh newness of an early romance. Watch out for big bouquets of flowers, and fancy bottles of wine served with delicious meals, and then a drive along the water, these are the trappings of an Aries fantasy at work. This can be a real blessing or it can also be the superficial heat of a jet’s after burner; the heat may be intense but it also may be short lived.

***Caution to potential partners of Aries: Don’t let your own potentially playful attitude towards competition blur the fact that your Fiery lover is not one to take a challenge lightly and will constantly accept any gauntlet thrown at his/her feet. In fact the blind competitive nature of the Aries can mean a narcissistic streak that can prevent Aries from knowing when they are hurting people.

Another aspect of the Aries’ approach to relationships is their inherent desire for adventure. So when they catch their prey (you) they sometimes have no idea what to do with you. Like a cat who knows he is supposed to catch a mouse, but since he has never been shown how to eat one, the Aries can be confused by some of the more mundane parts of the day-to-day relationship struggles. This is where the competitive struggle can come in handy. The Aries is likely to sense that some hard work can make this work smoothly, and will dig in and rise to the challenge.

For the Aries out there embrace your fire, and good things will come, deny it and only the negative aspects of your sign will be allowed to rise to the surface. Many women Aries find themselves living in a world that does not allow, or at least does not respect the qualities that define their sign. Joan of Arc was an Aries and look what the men of the church did to her. Love yourself and embrace the things that make you independent and important.

***For those of you stuck with a love-on for an Aries or even just a crush, don’t play games, they will go right over his/her head. If you want something, ask, they’ll appreciate it, and you will get what you want in the end.

Best Relationship Matches

Leo/Sagittarius Both the fire sign share a lot in common.

Libra An excellent match of opposites, however the marriage of too different planets, Mars and Venus, can sometimes be volatile.

Worst Relationship Matches

Pisces Too sentimental for you

Gemini Too much bickering

Virgo Too fussy for you

Fire can do good, like cooking food to eat and keeping us warm or it can do great harm, like burning a house down. Fire is a combustible, unpredictable element, a chemical reaction that can go off easily and quickly go from a small flame to a raging fire. Fire astrology signs can ignite easily too, they are very temperamental however if managed properly, they can be very beneficial. In fact, fire signs must be managed and under control in order to be of benefit. Fire signs can be emotionally volatile yet they are very passionate. Fire can change it’s course at an instant, those born under fire astrology signs are very dynamic and like the fire spreading, are the first to set out into the unknown and take initiative with adventurous enthusiasm. Fire is not a physical thing, it is quite mystical and fire astrology sign people apprehend the world through their intuition, they trust their gut instinct (or they should anyway) because it rarely ever leads them wrong. Fire people have a strong sense of self just like fire which has no regard over anything in it’s path, fire people are quite self centered but they are moving so fast that they never get stuck on themselves, the fire needs to spread and explore. Fire people are impulsive and just like fire spreading, often leap before they look. 

Direct

Aries are bold bold bolddd people!  So it’s likely that they’ll walk up to you, tell you you’re attractive and demand that you go on a date with them.  This is more likely to happen when their bold side comes out to play. However if the Aries isn’t so bold, you’ll notice them watching you from across the room.  

Red Hot Passion

Aries are the go-getters of the zodiac.  Therefore, when they like you you’ll know it!  They’ll shower you with love, warmth, passion and attention.  If they like you and/or love you, everyone around them will know it.  Aries won’t hide their love from anyone.

Soo much more than S.E.X

If Aries wants to do more than just have sex, I’m sure they like you.  If your Aries offers to take you out, go to the movies, and do various activities with them, they like you.  Aries appreciate passion and adventure.  If he or she likes you, they’ll be willing to share intellectual interests with you as well.

Details. Remembers

Let’s keep it real, Aries are forgetful individuals.  It’s not like they’re purposely forgetting information.  But if your Aries can remember the little things about you, if your Aries knows your birthday, if your Aries remembers the small details, they’re into you.  Because if they remember the little things, they’re actually making an effort to remember and they’re actually thinking about you.  Furthermore, Aries motto is “I am”, so if they’ve taken the time to focus less on themselves, that signals their love for you.

This is me.  This is the real me.

Once your Aries starts revealing their emotional and sensitive sign consider yourself their lifelong lover.  You’ve definitely left an imprint on their heart and they trust you.  

Most of all, you know an Aries likes you when….

They tell you, they tell you again, they tell you a thousand different ways. Aries does not beat around the bush. When they are interested they are eager, open and not afraid to tell everyone exactly how they feel.  Aries is verbal, open and obvious in love.

Aries is the cardinal-fire sign which translates into life loving and highly energized and this describes their needs concerning love as well. As a partner they make life exciting, albeit occasionally tiring, and you cannot help but feel rather joyful and light hearted when you’re in their company. It’s that blend of innocence (the lamb) with pure power (the ram) that is so captivating about an Aries mate. They don’t understand the meaning of the word routine, however, and boredom is the number one killer of Aries romances. Aries loves as boldly and as strongly as it experiences life. From sports to personal challenges Aries are usually not happy unless they are moving after something. With Mars as their ruling planet often at times their entire lives are about channeling and putting that immense power to work for them. It’s not uncommon to find an Aries firmly committed to a long term volatile arrangement that leaves those around them wondering why they would stay. The truth is they often thrive on that kind of intensity and it can do far less damage than existing within a relationship that has grown routine and stagnant.

When an Aries loves they LOVE. The partner is hoisted up onto a pedestal whether they want to be there or not and they become a treasure to be protected and guarded passionately. The love of an Aries life often becomes the driving motivation for their challenging goals and the phrase, “I did this for YOU” is one heard in many of the best Aries relationships.