Libra colors are on the softer side, such as blues and greens in the pastel and pale side of the spectrum.

A soft (or baby blue color shade) heals the mind, and brings peace and relaxation. A pale green is a powerful tonic that has been known to keep the mind, body and soul in perfect balance (which is the main goal of most Libras).

The astrological color assigned to individuals born between September 23rd and October 22nd is a light shade of blue. Don’t be misled by thinking that because light blue is not a primary color that it signifies weakness, in fact it is considered to be one of the most spiritual colors in the astrological world. Just look up during a cloud free day and see the majesty and the tranquility of the endless light blue sky.

Pale blue is the perfect color for Libras, as it will raise the inner spirit, hope and dreams of the individuals born under this 7th horoscope sign.

The color blue is associated with stimulating the mind of Libras, and to help them with focusing their mental talents of psychic connection and communications. By placing a blue sapphire stone under your pillow while you sleep, it will ward off negative thoughts, encourage a good night’s rest and keep your mind in a positive and productive place.

Green is also not a primary color; it is mostly comprised of a blue and yellow mix. Green, according to Old English translation, means “to grow” (to bring about life).

Other colors that are associated with bringing a Libra good luck and balance are white and pink.

Libras, an air horoscope sign, benefit greatly by deep breathing and visualizing the colors that will bring about total well-being.

Keeping in line with the soft greens, Jade is considered to be a healing and a dream stone that brings to mind insightful ideas while dreaming. It enhances the loving and natural nurturing nature of Libras, and will bring to you honest, long lasting friendship and positive energy (while at the same time, releasing your mind and body of negativity and dangerous toxins). Since Libras are prone to kidney issues, it is encouraged to keep this healing green stone in your pocket.

Libras are prone to weak kidneys, and it is encouraged to drink large quantities of water to keep this vital organ flushed of toxins. Cucumbers and celery (a light green food) will keep the Libra functioning properly. Sugar, processed foods and adult beverages should be avoided by Libras as they produce a sluggish feeling in both the mind and body.

Libra

Above all the rest your Libra lover is the most passionate, the most comforting and the most amiable of the sun signs. It is just in their nature. It is likely that you were the wall flower and they approached you at the party. They struck up a conversation because they sensed in you a discontentedness, or alienation. It was their gentle and comforting way that appealed so quickly to your heart and then they attacked your head. This is the general pattern of the Libran lovers, to reach out for the emotional aspects in people, and yet because of their almost insatiable thirst for knowledge, you won’t get out of a relationship with Libra before demonstrating an interest in more scholarly parts of the world.

But don’t get too deep with a Libra, since they are one of the air signs, their attention can wane and be spotty at best. They love to delve into hobbies like a flash in the pan, hot and quick. This incessant need for variety can be a real strength or an incredible weakness. Be aware of this tendency and make sure that you can see the warning signs in your Libra. When their eyes start to wander change the subject, there is no point trying to force the issue with a Libra, since even if they wanted to keep going their mind may be forcing them in different directions than they want to go in. Try and flow with their mind and their desires, it is often interesting and always exciting.

The Libran is always very intuitive. They know when you are lying and they know when you are trying to conceal some emotion or anger. It is always recommended to be honest with a lover that sits inside of the Libran sun sign, since they have a built in lie detector and are always on the look out for deception. This intuition means strong paternal/maternal instincts and a great deal of empathy. They are constantly making sure that you are ok, and that everyone around them is having fun. Don’t expect to be able to hold on to your Libra at a party and though they will be regularly looking for you and peppering you with affection, their more emotional empathic side drives them around.

*** Note: If you are on the hunt for a Libra man or woman, don’t force things with them. Though being swept of one’s feet is always attractive, the Libra may have so much on the go that it is important to integrate yourself into their world initially. Don’t let this stop your from romance and spontaneity, just recognize when and how.

Balance is very important to Libras. They even have trouble making more mundane decisions as a result of this borderline obsession with fairness. They love to gather all the relevant information about a general situation and then carefully sift through it to come up with a point of view that takes into consideration all the valuable components of each side. This is a great quality, but can sometimes lead to insanity in Libra’s partners as even dinner plans can be fraught with crisis level decision making stress.

***Note: Just make those little decisions for them. If you can’t decide between Chinese and Thai, just figure out which one you would rather, and then make it happen. Don’t mistake this indecision for a desire to have all of their life decided by others. On the contrary, it is a good lover’s job to help Libra overcome the ineffectualness that can sometimes arise as a result of this personality trait. Don’t let them lose out on opportunities because they are so concerned with making the right decision that they make no decision.

You may notice that for some Libras, this striving for balance results in a real aversion to conflict. Don’t worry about their feelings though, they are more worried about hurting yours. They would much prefer to work out arguments with dialogue, and will usually only be satisfied when both sides are shown and each part of the disagreement in resolved.

The most obvious warning regarding pursuing a relationship with a Libra can be found in precisely the same place that their greatest strengths lay. Many times Libra can be found mired in a very real and difficult “love triangle.” This means that their hearts are truly divided, and thought they can’t make up their mind as of yet, the air aspects of their sign means that when they do, it may be made coldly and with a detached calculation. This can lead to broken hearts and deeply hurt feelings and despite the intuitive knowledge that a Libra has of other people, their self preservation is made manifest through this emotionally removed decision making process.

Don’t run away, just keep yourself protected until your Libran lover makes a decision, and trust me the wait is worth the reward.

Best Relationship Matches

Aries Is your ideal mate despite being your zodiacal opposite. It’s a great evening out of the Venus and Mars’ different qualities: aggression and tenderness, leadership and acquiescence, practicality and creativity.

Gemini They are able to appreciate your understanding of their complex character, and you’re artistically harmonious.

Aquarius You both love people and beauty, although they’re a touch more unpredictable.

Worst Relationship Matches

Virgo Too fussy for you.

Scorpio Too dark for your warm, sunny outlook.

Air is the element that you cannot touch or see, but it can be mysteriously contained, like blowing up a balloon. When it is contained in this way, it somehow escapes or gets stale. Air people are free and cannot be contained or this same thing will happen to them. Air is uncertain and unpredictable, it can spawn a horrendous thunderstorm with violent winds and the pressure drops and raises by the minute. Air sign people are elusive in this way, they are unpredictable and eccentric. Air is the most necessary element, being necessary to fire, earth and water. Air people live in their mind. They are caught up in their thoughts which take them high to new levels where no other element can reach, like the upper atmosphere. Here they can formulate theories, solve problems clearly and see the world below. Air people are said to be out of touch with reality, but they are also very advanced in thinking. They are very mental oriented people having a knack for intelligence but also lacking emotional depth.

Takes the initiative

Libras don’t usually initiate conversations. The reasons being, they might be unsure of the reaction of the particular girl/boy in interest or they’re still sizing you up from a distance. This is just one of the major traits of a Libra, indecision.

But if a conversation does initiate, it can be pretty obvious soon enough if they like you or not. They’ll usually be really sweet and compliment you on things they’ve been noticing about you, during their observations. 

An important thing to note is to always give them some breathing space. Try not to be too receptive. Make it known to Libra that you do like them but also make them work for it. They’ll go all the way, if they really do like you.

Passivity and Eye Contact

Once committed Libras are very loyal; but until committed they can stay in indecision for some time. You may have to stay friends and be prepared to wait. If Libra is interested, their eye contact will be good, and they will have lots of ideas and be a bright spark with lots of things to say. If they are not interested they will be very passive.

 
Tell me about your Life

Libras are friendly/flirtatious with everyone.  Being that they’re naturally curious, they will show interest in you by digging into your personal life. If Libra is focused on getting to know you on a personal and even deep level they like you.  As they are so pure, you may see it in their eyes, they wouldn’t be able to hide it.

DANGER BEWARE

Despite all the lovely information I have presented, one must not forget Libras are players! They are so sweet one day, but when they know the girl/boy is falling for them, their sweetness dissolves. It’s like think they want all the girls/boys to fall for them, and when they achieve that, their ego has been bolstered

Keep them begging for MORE

Show them interest one day, and than be completely indifferent the next day. You wanna know why? Because Libras very rarely are challenged, therefore they’ll be completely intrigued.  Make sure you keep a Libra hanging on your every word.

I also think that part of the reason Libras have a reputation as being players is that deep down they really don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, and so they try to please everyone and they never seem to learn that if you don’t like someone it’s okay to say “no” instead of leading them on. I think a Libra worries more about rejecting someone outright than the harm they are doing by leading someone on when they don’t feel the same way.

Libra is the cardinal-air sign ruled by Venus. This means heart processes through the mind. Libra is an active and sociable lover who enjoys having people around them. They are generally sensual and passionate lovers whose love of luxury and beauty penetrates the bedroom and the relationship. They are the peacekeepers of the zodiac and weigh all sides and situations equally as such they often have difficulties in making hard and fast decisions. This can be frustrating for their loved ones as they vacillate between this and that, one way and another. Libra needs attention and the company of other people and when deprived of that they can sink into a very real depression and lose their inspiration. They are people oriented and enjoy the stimulation of having their loved ones and friends an active part of their life. This often creates a problem when the lover feels no more important then their best friend. Libras are all around charming and good natured even when they don’t want to be and they can actively stifle any personal complaints until they reach the boiling point. When a Libra has allowed the scales to become unfairly tipped they often lash out explosively, surprising their mates who have come to see only their gentle and peaceable exterior. Libras love romance and all of its finest attributes from flowers, to poetry to love songs. They like the accessories that come along with being in love. The state of being in love itself is often their primary focus in life. Whether it is being in love with their life, their job or their person they want to feel a connection from their heart/mind to their surroundings.